It's time to learn how to become attracted to what's healthier.
Where it's all about You, Your Self & Why.
From your point of you. One Session at a time.
An Independent Center of Initiative & Perception.
An Independent Center of Initiative & Perception.
Y O U G E T W H A T Y O U S T A Y F O R
Y O U G E T W H A T Y O U S T A Y F O R
YOU. FROM YOUR POINT YOU.
A more accurate view
Psychotherapy is a leap of faith. Not away from anyone or anything as much as a huge driving force (motivation) toward your Real Self.
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By looking at your Self in a way that is above all, empathic, honest, and consistent, you will be allowing me to provide interpretations or feedback in reflection back to you what my experience of you in a healthier more satisfying relationship.
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And yes, while our particular relationship will be unique to the ones you have and are attempting to have outside of our work together, consider that you will be paying me for my time and NOT my feelings.
The privilege of working with those with whom we have each agreed is a "good fit," which means you bringing the best version of you into our sessions.
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Each time we meet, you will be allowing me to guide you as you leave the comfortable but unhealthy "Garden of Ignorance," and more consciously and therefore more informed understanding of yourself.
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By experiencing a relationship with an authentic, emotionally manageable, and consistently accurate perspective of you. You, from Your point of You.
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I have a deep interest in the successful treatment of symptoms of trauma such as Infidelity, substance abuse, and other ways in which we cope with life stressors or feelings of inadequacy which as a Psychoanalytic/Psychodynamic Psychotherapist I see as coming from our childhood selves.
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Lies we tell ourSelves like accepting a false Self-narrative or a clinical diagnosis as an identity perpetuates a Self- loathing narrative in need of uprooting!
SELF. CENTERED. THERAPY.
SELF. CENTERED. THERAPY.
THE SELF - A PERSON'S ESSENTIAL BEING THAT DISTINGUISHES THEM FROM OTHERS
THE SELF - A PERSON'S ESSENTIAL BEING THAT DISTINGUISHES THEM FROM OTHERS
“Show business is and has always been a depraved carnival. “
- DAVID MAMET, playwright
Mine inspired ———-> 👇🏾<————— by his
“Looking only to other people to see you makes you blind to the reality of you.
Being blind to reality, makes you see what’s not true in you.
Truth seeing the you you unearth in being truly seen by an enough others can make you famous.
People who need to be famous may be looking to be seen by people who are infamous for not seeing people like you.
When, People, like you. See, they may be thinking that liking you is seeing you.
You not seeing you when you’re looked at by others who say you’re invisible, is not the established dogma of a stabilized THEM. When this made to believe you is created by them, and in doing so, you disbelieve you and ONLY believe them, then you have participated in their  verisimilitude and now HAVE TO prove to them (instead of sustaining and remaining you), that you aren’t some freak in their circus!
Clowns, Elephants, Lions, Tigers and Bears will try
to establish their (own set of Principles which on its own appears and Identified Patients with little to no patience or belief in the possibility of being known - has thrown you like a chicken whose flown the coop.
Fact is there is no carnival without its celebrated freaks. So, since there is no carnival without freaks , the definition of and participation in the belief of freaks - me
The stuff untreated people with BPD or NPD don’t want you to know....
Remember:
1. Stay Your Self by doing things you like to do. Either with others or with yourself but for now, just doing the thing that helps you stay YOU is the most important parent.. for now.
2. Stay in Reality (look for the evidence of what they are accusing you of. They ARE feeling their feeling and it’s valid. Meaning who are we tell someone their feelings are wrong .no feeling is wrong, it’s actually the most right thing about us ! What they are not are facts the more you remind yourself and this staying in reality, it’s the remedy to managing your emotions when THEIRS is so so big.
3. You don’t have to respond. It’s a tactic to make a problem about you. They are saying “yeah, but LOOK OVER THERE!” It’s a distraction. Not always on purpose, but purposeful always! Stay with the topic at hand.
4. *You can despise the behavior and deeply love the person at the same time. They may be trying to convince you OTHERS are WISE™️
—- * THIS speaks to abuse tho. Abuse is not love. If you are trying to better understand why the person you love most, your partner or mother or father or cousin is placing hands on you or using your vulnerability to throw back in your face.
Immediately walk away and truly consider that although they may not have thought they knew what they were doing, or more accurately “FELT” they were in the right to be so disrespectfully cruel to you.
THE SELF - A PERSON'S ESSENTIAL BEING THAT DISTINGUISHES THEM FROM OTHERS
THE SELF - A PERSON'S ESSENTIAL BEING THAT DISTINGUISHES THEM FROM OTHERS
Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't.
Our answers are within our Selves, which is the answer to all our questioning of Self. - me
Our answers are within our Selves, which is the answer to all our questioning of Self. - me
“The success in catching up to your Self, requires an empathic look to your failures as inspiration.” - me
“It’s not what happened that is the trauma. It’s what didn’t happen enough afterwards.” - me or what happens inside us.
“It’s not what happened that is the trauma. It’s what didn’t happen enough afterwards.” - me or what happens inside us.
THE PRIVILEGE OF A LIFETIME IS TO BECOME WHO YOU TRULY ARE.
- Carl Jung
- Carl Jung
YOUR GROWTH IS NOT THE ABANDONMENT OF OTHERS
Our answers are within our Selves, which is the answer to all our questioning of Self.
Our answers are within our Selves, which is the answer to all our questioning of Self.
“I cannot change the world on my own, however comma in owning me by letting others be them: I’ve changed my world, influenced theirs and in doing so - Change Happened. - me
“I cannot change the world on my own, however comma in owning me by letting others be them: I’ve changed my world, influenced theirs and in doing so - Change Happened. - me